Hello again ladies and gents. Today I'd like to talk to you all about a concept that is very important, but often overlooked. What I'm talking about is Positioning.
Have you ever seen a handsome guy or beautiful girl with a not so good looking boyfriend or girlfriend? This is because he or she was around and you were not. The saying "distance makes the heart grow fonder" is a lie, it's much easier to forget someone if you don't have to see them. "Out of sight, out of mind".
How to start implementing good positioning into your daily routine:
When ever you have a meeting or class, try to position yourself close to a hot girl or guy that you like. Just being near them will make them remember you and will spark random conversation from time to time. Could be anything from how much they don't want to be there, to how their day or weekend went. This is all good conversation because it allows you to get to know one another. This is always a good thing.
Then when you're out for the weekend, maybe at a party or social gathering and you run into him or her you can say "Hey, you're Sarah from class!" and just like that you've got yourself in a good position.
When you're going on long trips with many people, try to position yourself so that you get to sit behind, in front of, or next to someone you like. (Next to is best, but it does take some guts to attempt). If you're brave enough to sit next to them then you have to hope that they wont just pop their ipod in right away and ruin the chance at conversation. If they do, you'll have to wait it out unfortunately. Often there will be a movie playing for the whole bus or plane to watch, this is great because you can enjoy it with her and laugh along pointing out funny or sad things as they unfold throughout the movie. Again setting you up and getting you information about the person. Remember to not be overly friendly, just be normal and yourself. You are allowed to have an opinion, you don't have to just agree with everything they say.
If you happen to be sitting behind or in front of them then you'll need to work on your timing. Have a conversation with the group around you so that they will want to join in on the conversation. The easiest way to do this is to ask a general question like "Anyone know how long this drive is?" That will get you in the door and open up other conversations, like you can ask if they've been to wherever you are going before. Or where else they've been that's interesting.
Overall, just remember that Positioning can go along way. That hot girl will notice you if you sit right next to her everyday and don't give her a chance not to. Then it's up to you to make her like you. You can either sit there silently everyday blowing your chance. Or talk to her, let her get to know who you really are so she'll give you the chance you've been waiting for.
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~ The Panty Raider
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